Mid-life crisis or not, everyone has something he wants to fix about himself. It may be a physical trait or a mental characteristic. Since change is hard and most people shy away from hard work, these people will instead wallow in self-pity and never take the steps to re-create themselves. If only these people had heard about the laws of attraction. If they had, then they would find it very easy to accept themselves as they are or make the changes they had always wanted to make. The laws of attraction are a simple way to re-create yourself in your own ideal image and then teach others to view you in that way as well.

Many people feel the success is an ephemeral quality that cannot be grasped, but only bestowed. These people, regardless of their other qualifications, will probably never be successful. This is because success is not only something that you can grasp, but something that you must grasp if you ever truly want it. The best way to grab success and make it your own is through using the laws of attraction.

You may think that you know yourself, after all you do spend every minute of the day in your own company. However, how many of us really know ourselves? I mean really know ourselves.

Once you have discovered your basic self-perception, it is time to recreate it. You need to take time to sit down with yourself, either in a peaceful outdoor setting, or a space you feel very comfortable in and focus on all the parts of yourself that you like.

Take a walk or spend an hour in the bathtub with your phone on silent. Think about what you like about yourself and what you wish you could change.

Don't exaggerate your strengths and conversely, don't overplay your weaknesses. Instead, take every weakness and try to look at it in an angle that can re-create it into a success. For example, instead of thinking 'I'm a pushover, ' think 'I'm a good team player.'

Every time you notice a negative trait in yourself, find a way to rephrase it in a positive light. If you keep consciously doing this for months it will eventually become second nature. You will learn to think positively of yourself. Once you can do that, it is time to let the laws of attraction loose.

You need to be attractive to friends, co-workers, bosses, and even strangers. Attract them with the strength of your personality and self-confidence. These people are then more likely to give you promotions and other opportunities for bettering yourself. The best thing about the laws of attraction are their infectious quality. The more you use them, the more good things will happen to you, and the better you'll feel about yourself, which will in turn leads you to want to use it even more. As soon as you can create a truly positive self-image, you will be able to use the laws of attraction to climb the ladder of success.