When an individual passes on, those they leave behind sometimes find it hard to let go. They need some way to cope with their loss and deal with their grief. Having a proper Grave Memorial not only honors the dearly departed, but gives the living a place to physically visit and feel close to the one buried there.

For these reasons, taking time to consider one's options in site markers is important. The monument should be a reflection of the person it is meant to represent in order to properly honor their memory. Between the various materials and design elements available, there are plenty of opportunities to design the perfect piece.

Monuments of this type can be made out of several different materials, each with their own points of attraction. They may be constructed from substances such as concrete, wood, limestone, marble, brass or stainless steel. Granite and bronze are the products most often used because they are both versatile, attractive, easy to maintain and resistant to even harsh weather conditions like snow storms and acidic rains.

Many cemeteries place restrictions on the types of markers that are allowed, so this is a factor that one will need to consider when making their selection. Sometimes these regulations are in place as a way to keep the overall look neat and consistent, or it could be a matter of easy maintenance. Whatever the reasons, there are still many ways in which a gravestone may be personalized to the individual's style.

Another benefit to choosing granite is that one will have choices when it comes to texture, detail and color. This stone is available in its natural grey, but also in hues such as red, pink, green, blue, white and black. A standard matte finish may be left on the surface or one may opt to have it polished to a mirror quality high shine that looks truly beautiful when etched.

Incorporating personal touches can make it more special. Etchings of favorite symbols or items is a great way to individualize. It is also possible to have photo frames built into the structure so that their likeness can be preserved indefinitely so that generations of visitors to come may look upon the face of the one who rests there.

There are decals that may be added to the headstone to show membership in an organization or military service. Seating, vases, planters and statues are just a few of the ways a grave memorial could be made truly special. It is even possible to have solar lighting installed so that the marker will be forever illuminated.