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By Marissa Velazquez


Getting engaged is a huge, exciting event in one's life, and the wedding is an even bigger event. In between, however, comes the planning. Putting a wedding together can be a fun, but it can also be very stressful. It presents many questions, such as whether to hire a wedding planner, how many people to invite, how to cater the event, who should be in the party, and whether to hire a band or a mobile wedding DJ.

Hire a wedding planner, or plan the event on your own? This often becomes a simple question of time and money. Some people find that the extra cost of hiring outside help is worthwhile for the time and hassle it saves. However, others have a limited budget that does not allow for a planner. Some people also enjoy making arrangements on their own, or enlisting the help of trusted siblings, friends or cousins.

Should you have a big guest list or a small one? Budget factors in here, too. For some couples, this question leads to a lot of concern. If both people come from big, close families, and want to have many people attend, the cost can easily exceed the amount of money they have to spend. In this case, there are a few options. You could invite only a very few people, or you could cut costs in other areas in order to have a large guest list.

Where should I have my ceremony and reception? Ask around and find out if anyone you know has access to a church or reception hall. Some churches may require that a couple undergo pre-marriage counseling before getting married in the church, so that is something to consider. If you are unable to find a good deal on a venue for the event, you might consider having it in someone's home or in a park, especially if the guest list is small.

What kind of food should I serve? Lots of couple choose to hire a professional catering service that provides a full meal or a buffet. If the budget does not allow for this, however, you could serve only cocktails and finger foods, or have a meal cooked by relatives or friends.

Who should stand up in the ceremony? This issue can cause a lot of dissension, especially when there is a large number of friends and relatives who expect to be included. If that is your situation, it might be best to have only a best man/maid of honor, rather than having to deal with people who are angry that they didn't make the cut.

Should I hire a band or a dj? This is another tough one. It depends on the type of music you envision, the set up of the venue, and of course, your budget. A full band is generally more expensive than a DJ, unless you know a band who would play for a low cost.

If you know a mobile wedding dj, he or she might also play for a lower cost. Start talking to people as soon as possible. If you get your planning going early, it can help to avoid the added stress of making decisions at the last minute. You want your planning to be a good memory, rather than an unpleasant one.




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